Seme + Uke: Derogatory ? 1mcx
16 years ago
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I think I read something awhile ago somewhere where somebody mentioned something like this in ing.They said that like "seme" and "uke" demeaned the actual love and relationship. However, another said it didn't really matter since it was only fictional and slang. Overall, I think it is because there is a lack of available for yaoi fans. 6z485l
Just wondering what your opinions are?
Please to keep the bashing and flaming to the utmost minimum.
(Also, would anyone happen know if these are used for yuri manga as well?)
16 years ago
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They are? O_O
I thought seme = top, uke = bottom? I mean they're just positions, no? Or like femme and butch in gay relationships. Maybe they mean something else in Japanese? No idea.
It is sort of leading to ways of thought
that think there's always roles in gay
relationships. They can both be men.
Even GAR men, Shooting bears and
fishing, not just a molesting basketball
player and a loli trap.
16 years ago
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Never heard those were considered derogatory.
And I don't think so myself.
And to answer your other question, in yuri:
Top- Butch.
Bottom- Femme.
(read that in honey & honey :3 a while back)
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16 years ago
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I don't like them, and I don't use those much at all. Hard to explain why.
16 years ago
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Wait, those aren't just manga ?...
I don't use them anywhere except on this site, or other manga related ones.
Like anybody would understand. 🤣
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16 years ago
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I dislike those because it highlights the worst side of yaoi readership; the type that just wants the homo version of shoujo.
16 years ago
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I don't think they are derogatory. Those are only used in yaoi manga NOT anywhere outside those manga (and perhaps BL novels written by Japanese?). And I haven't seen any having derogatory connotation when using them.
There are those because in many yaoi manga traditionally the top guy always pursues the more feminine looking bottom guy. I don't like this cliche but it still exists. I don't think there are similar in yuri though.
I agree with ZeroNine that some of the authors made yaoi this way because they can attract readers who actually want shoujo with guys playing the roles of a man and a woman (again this is still cliched in shoujo and I don't think relationships portrayed in shoujo/smut can represent RL). Apparently this is not the need of yuri readers, right?
I personally think those readers are weird but it sells to them. :shrug: But I don't think we have to make a big fuss about those though.
16 years ago
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No, and I'm not into yaoi.
They're just to describe characters in the manga, just like how people use "tsundere" and the like.
So no...I don't think they're derogatory. It's not like people use them to call people that in real life.
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16 years ago
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no i don't think so since i only use them while talking about yaoi.
and it is not like i have a chance to not use them. though i sometimes use top/bottom, too.
16 years ago
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They're just cliches and stereotypes and can be extremely annoying since it's like "someone with this kinda name/character must be completely submissive or aggressive or has to behave as such and such". However, it's far more interesting to find BL that doesn't really adhere to these "stereotypes".
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They're just cliches and stereotypes and can be extremely annoying since it's like "someone with this kinda name/character must be completely submissive or aggressive or has to behave as such and such". However, it's far more interesting to find BL that doesn't really adhere to these "stereotypes".
I agree with you yuri, since they are sterotypes used in MOST yaoi, not saying all of them are like this, but most of the ones I have read always have the uke as kinda wimpish and small...and the seme more agressive and bigger....also the dont switch, its like "oh well your the uke..so your gonna stay that way" kinda things in manga...but in RL gay couple usualy aren't like that....so the whole uke and seme thing is just making somewhat of a fictionally based stereotype.
Though in RL I have never actually heard anyone be refered to as uke or seme...just top or bottom. But eh...i see them not so much derogatory, but more fictionally based....
16 years ago
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oh this is about Yaoi... no wonder I didn't know what the heck this was about...
*Leaves the thread
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16 years ago
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They are not fictional . Uke derives from "ukeru" which means "to receive" it's similar to "catcher" slang term in english. Seme derives from "semeru" which means "to attack" and is similar to the "pitcher" term in english. For lesbians there is "neko" ie femme and "tachi" ie butch. You may also hear gay males calling themselves "neko". These are as derogatory as one makes them. All of them are slang, they exist in all languages, it kind of make sense if you think that gay people have to voice their preferences somehow. So, while people don't go around calling constantly themselves such and there are some who don't use these at all, they exist outside of fiction. They were not created to accommodate the yaoi genre, rather the opposite, it is the yaoi genre that used and, to some extend, abused them.
The only instance i find those slightly annoying is when some yaoi fangirl calls herself "seme" or "uke" or say something similar to "I want to marry a seme"
16 years ago
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I think those are derived from roles in martial arts practicing or something.
I don't think gay people would call themselves seme and uke. They usually use top and bottom. And bottoms being more feminine and submissive and roles never changing indeed only exist in yaoi/ BL fiction. That's why seme and uke are still not equivalents to RL tops and bottoms. They are unique for fictional characters.
